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Oak Tree Advisory Services, Inc.

Divorce Support

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SUPPORT FOR COUPLES CONSIDERING OR HEADING INTO DIVORCE

Divorce turns lives upside down. The shattering of dreams, the breaking of trust, the loss of hope for the future.

It is a time of great confusion full of questions and concerns.

  • Is this the right decision?
  • How will I live?
  • How will we divide our assets?
  • What about the children?

Oak Tree Mediation is a service of Oak Tree Advisory Services, Inc. We offer a neutral zone where you learn about options in divorce and how you can handle life without expensive legal fights.

Oak Tree Mediation is a service of Oak Tree Advisory Services, Inc. We offer a neutral zone where you learn about options in divorce and how you can handle life without expensive legal fights.

We help couples in conflict by defusing emotions and opening the lines of communication. Through a thoughtful review of your financial picture, we help you work through to a place of possibilities and workable options.

We offer a safe, confidential place to discuss your finances, your income and expenses, and your options for the future. We call it “creating a peaceful divide.”

We often begin with our proprietary process we call ONE LAST LOOK.

IS DIVORCE MEDIATION RIGHT FOR YOU?

Mediation is not therapy. Mediation is not designed to save a marriage—that’s the work of skilled therapists. However, we often work in tandem with therapists, who provide support and understanding while help you plan out your direction forward.

Opening Doors. Our principle goal is to open a door that educates you about your options, opportunities and potential financial outcomes. You both need critical information before you start any process.

Understanding Options. At its core, divorce is a contract dispute—the marriage contract. This does not mean you have to go to court. In fact, most courts prefer that you work out the details yourselves. Instead of doing it in a courtroom, you’re at home or in a relaxed office environment with a mediator or collaborative team.

Reaching Tough Agreements. Mediation allows you to reach solutions for important issues that must be decided: child custody, support, assets, and everyday finances. You have the power of choice at all times.

Neutral, Private and Confidential. Mediation means that we act as a neutral third party. We do not represent one person over the other. However, we do monitor the balance of power to keep you both on a level playing field. Think of mediation as Switzerland - a neutral country that doesn’t take sides.

Children Are Paramount. Your family isn’t breaking, it’s changing. It is important to keep children from being victims of a painful adult-driven process. They did not choose this.